Re: Friends or Girlf/Boyf?

Oh wow, i can see many comments at my tag board.

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So I've see most of the people or rather ALL of them have chosen friends to boyf/girlf.

Yes, i must agree that some of the reasons given by you guys are really true.

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Friends
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It's often heard and said that friendship always last longer than a relationship.
Uh huh, the percentage of a lasting friendship is always higher than a lasting relationship.

You tell me girlfriends are forever, boyfriends are not.
Y'know, different situations varies. It's not always like this.


Let's talk bout it.
To me, true friends always attempt to ask me out despite knowing i'll be spending most of my time with my boyfriend.
True friends will support any decision i make.
True friends will NOT speak bad to me bout my boyfriend. Instead, they tell me good things bout him. Yah, you guys must be thinking i'm living in a world of denial. Let's see, human minds... It's truely complicated and you wont know what they're thinking. Sometimes i'm even confused bout the way i see things. Do you know how easily a person can get influenced? Very. Maybe not for a someone who have a very determined mindset, good for you then.

Its like you're thinking bout this something initially and planning to do this, someone comes over to you and tell you that you shouldn't. He/She gives you a whole lot of reasons why you shouldn't, and at the end of it, he/she says its up to you. He/she is just giving you advices because they treat you as a good friend. Please do not tell me that you'll not brood over whatever he/she says because i'm definitely sure you'll. Ok,maybe not brood. But i'm sure it sure crossed your mind at least once hence affecting your decision. Am i right to say that? See,this is how influential people can be....

Of course i'm not saying that i'll choose my boyfriend if i do not have any true friends. Ask yourself, have you ever told a bad thing to your friend bout their boyf/girlf? I'm pretty sure i did, i admit. Saying that they're ugly, that they don't deserve someone so good for them and all......... You see, sometimes it's just out of plain jealousy. Sour grapes.


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Boyf/Girlf
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Some people prefer single hood to being attached.

Why?
Because they'll have more freedom to do anything they like, etc clubbing.
Tell me whose boyfriend like their girlfriend to go clubbing?
Err, if you do then I've nothing to say.

I used to club alot, because i love to listen to the music and dance that's all. But Baby will always come up with all the excuses just to persuade me not to go.
"Later people grind you how?"
"How you know they wont grind you?"
"Don't want ah, i don't like."
"Cannot cannot, you only can go when i go."

He cares for me i know, that's why you rarely see me in clubs now or you don't even get to see me at all, maybe only when he's around. See, isn't it good to have someone to care for you?

You cant compare a normal friend with your boyf/girlf, really.
Friends cant give you the lovely dovey feeling....
That's what i think? I'm not sure bout you.

I prefer being attached because i'm very dependent. I need someone to rely on, to give me that lovely dovey feeling which friends cannot give me. Are you like me?

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hello2: if u think ur ur daryl's whole world. u're damn wrong. sooner of later, u'll know why.
psb: friends. because your boyfriend is a flirt kia.

I really dont understand why these people like to bring others down by saying such a sentence.
Yes, Daryl's my world. What's wrong with that? I dont think you gain anything by saying that isn't it? I bet you dont know my boyfriend well enough, because i know he's not.
Why do people like to judge someone whom they dont know when they gain nothing from it?

Like i said, jealousy brings critics.
Ok, let's just skip this part and move on.


When someone is in love, there're only the 2 of them in their world.
I love the feeling of being loved, and i love to love too.
Moreover its only the 2nd month for us, the so-called 'honeymoon' period. So i dont see any reasons why i cant spend more time with my boyfriend now. I believe we wont be spending much time together as before because Daryl's going NS soon..... And we're only gonna meet like once a week at the period of time?
I'm sorry for neglecting you guys right now. Please understand.

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Both is equally important to me actually.
But of course i love Daryl more :)